Red roses, a flattering date, tones of compliments, what is it that a girl wants? Well every heart is a mystery, so is every girl. In this case, googling is not going to do you any good. So switch it off.
When you find a girl you really like, let her know first. Keeping
it a secret won’t help. Not suggesting that you go and confront her, you have
to make her feel that you are falling for her. And little things do count as
dreamy as a dream guy sound, a prince charming in a fairy tale story, at the
end, it’s all about being real. It takes actual work, so make an effort to
really know her. [I don’t mean stalking her Facebook profile, or Instagram page.]
Try to find out what she likes, ask her how she like her coffee, her favorite
restaurant, her favorite book, songs she listens to, her ambition because that
information tells her that you really are interested in knowing her and not
just trying to flatter her. And be her friend. Someone she can count on to when
the world gets heavy and someone who can show her that things are going to be
okay and just fine. But have patience, you can’t expect her to like you back
instantly. Give her time to decide and be persistent.
And be there for her but not everywhere. What I am trying to
say is that everyone needs their personal space. A few moments alone, a few
things that only belongs to themselves and nobody else.
Love is a very delicate thing. It doesn’t happen at first
sight. Faith, destiny may coalesce you finding someone but it takes hard work
to make it work. Every individual is different and one of a kind, you have to
remember your girl is special and she deserves your best.
The expression and advice is written by a fellow colleague of mine, a good friend Ms Upasana Karmacharya. It is in her words.
The expression and advice is written by a fellow colleague of mine, a good friend Ms Upasana Karmacharya. It is in her words.
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